The he-said-she-said battle between porn star/entrepreneur Jenna Jameson and UFC fighter Tito Ortiz is escalating.

Wearing a wrap on her right elbow, Jenna told reporters Monday that Tito Ortiz had “lashed out” at her, resulting in her father calling 911 and Tito being arrested in Huntingon Beach, Calif., on domestic violence charges.

But after he was released on bail, a teary-eyed Tito and his lawyer held a press conference late Monday in Los Angeles and put the blame on Jameson.

“Jenna has been fighting a battle with OxyContin addiction for the past year. For Tito and her family this has been an uphill battle. Unfortunately this morning she had a relapse,” Ortiz’s lawyer Chip Matthews said. “Tito was trying to help her, she has threatened suicide before. Tito has done everything in his power to protect her privacy and the privacy of their children.”

Jenna told TMZ, however, that Tito was violent – he “threw me into a bathtub” — and that he’s falsely accusing her of OxyContin addiction because he’s “very, very desperate.”

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In an effort to appease my girlfriend for making her see Terminator Salvation, I agreed to watch the Sex And The City movie. In between my eye rolling, a realization hit me: Kim Cattrall, the ultimate “cougar,” this ideal of what older women should be striving to emulate, looks really amazing. At 52 years old, she looks hotter than she did 27 years ago when she played Honeywell in Porky’s. This isn’t because she tries to hide her age with excessive Botox, bobby socks or booty huggers. She has crow’s-feet and isn’t runway model thin. Cattrall, like many sophisticated older women before her (i.e., Sophia Loren and Anne Bancroft) wears her age classically. With elegant dresses and an intelligent vocabulary, Kim Cattrall embodies a woman, not a girl.

Give us a sophisticated older woman

Compare this with Cattrall’s costar Sarah Jessica Parker, regarding whom Peter Griffin once said: “looks like a foot.” Well, if that’s true, she now looks like a mannequin’s foot. She has had her face pulled tight in an effort to look like her younger self, but why? Her younger self was Rusty in Footloose: The girl not hot enough to date Kevin Bacon who had to settle for Chris Penn. She looked better in the ‘90s. Also, her cutesy outfits (pink tutu included) may have made her famous with college girls, but guys could care less. Give us a sophisticated older woman in a sleek black dress any day.

An unfortunate baby-mama history

This trend of baby mamas trying to look like babies instead of sophisticated older women took root in the ‘70s. The backlash of the love generation birthed Farrah Fawcett in little boy’s runner shorts and tight tank tops. It continued through the ‘80s, when Madonna looked like a little girl playing dress-up in her mother’s closet. It came to fruition in the ‘90s, when Pamela Anderson didn’t even try to hide her teen-esque style in the guise of a fashion statement: Tube tops, taut jeans and tans screamed, “Look at my tits.” Guys looked and so did women — ushering in the plastic generation: plastic faces and plastic personalities.

When females’ tube tops began to sag and their tans wrinkled, rather than evolve, they nipped and tucked. They continued dressing in Juicy Couture and dating through MySpace because their new faces fooled their owners into believing they were 10 years younger. Seeing Courtney Cox and Jennifer Aniston chirp one-liners on Friends convinced them that a personality could be developed through losing more weight. Unfortunately, they didn’t have Emmy-winning writers behind them and grew boring and were never able to enter the “sophisticated older woman” phase of their lives.

Bursting the botox bubble

As we approach 2010, the ‘90s dumb-girl look has reached critical mass. Cuties like Meg Ryan have become plastic surgery nightmares. We need to return to the days of Marilyn Monroe and Brigitte Bardot, when women wore their curves and did their best to grow old gracefully. The days where Betty Grable and Mae West didn’t need Stoli Blueberry and a frat boy to feel good. Guys, let’s stop rewarding women for acting like little girls because, as good as the immediate gratification is, the long-term consequences of synthetic mess-faces and artificial conversation won’t be worth it.

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10. Kittens And Cougars from Zero Tolerance, starring: Francesca Le, Julia Ann, Charlie Laine, Lexi Belle, Tori Black, and Ashli Orion

9. Seasons Players Meets Ass Eaters Unanimous from Tom Byron, starring Raylene, Christian XXX, Adriana DeVille, Hunter Bryce, Tanya Tate, and Gina Rome

8. I Was A Teenage MILF from Vivid, starring: Savanna Samson, Victoria Sin, Kayla Quinn, Hannah West, Courtney James, and Deena Daniels

7. Wanna Fuck My Daughter Gotta Fuck Me First 5 from Devil’s Film, starring: Christina Moure, Magdalene St. Michaels, Callie Dee, Sheila Marie, Sasha Brand, and Alexa Nicole

6. Mother-Daughter Exchange Club 3 from Girlfriends Films, starring: Magdalene St. Michaels, Lynn LeMay, Payton Leigh, Prinzzess Sahara, Lacey Laine, and Stephanie Sage

5. Mothers Teaching Daughters How To Suck Cock from Devil’s Film, starring: Chennin Blanc, Shayne Ryder, Hayden Night, Meridian, Nicole Moore, and Vanessa Videl

4. Lisa Ann: MILF Trainer from Hustler, starring: Lisa Ann, Raquel DeVine, Cheyne Collins, Kris Slater, Jay Lassiter, and C.J. Wright

3. My First MILF from Wicked Wall To Wall, starring: Diana Doll, Riley Evans, Kelly Leigh, Payton Leigh, John Espizedo, and Kendra Secrets

2. My Daughter’s Boyfriend from Sweetheart Video, starring: Melissa Monet, Trinity Post, Christian XXX, Jay Crew, James Deen, and Nina Hartley

1. Mother-Daughter Exchange Club 6 from Girlfriends Films, starring: Melissa Monet, Lexi Belle, Evie Delatosso, Magdalene St. Michaels, KC Kelly, and June Summers

Holly Sampson is one of the many, many women alleged to have fucked the once-mighty, now shamed world’s most famous golfer, Tiger Woods. (In fact, check with every woman you know — you never know, one of them might be a Tiger Woods conquest!) You can see Holly in action in Cheating Housewives 6, along with the beautiful Stephanie Swift (we all wish for a speedy recovery for you, Stephanie), hot MILF Julia Ann, Latin mami Francesca Le, and super cougar Vannah Sterling. Looking at Holly, I do have to say it’s no wonder he was tempted.

Women become less sexually active and less interested in sex as they get older, on average, but there are still plenty of women who continue to have sex and maintain their sexual desire into their 60s and beyond, new research shows.

And a woman’s mental and physical health has more of an influence on her sex life than her age, according to the researchers.

Conventional wisdom holds that women’s sexual activity and interest dwindles as time goes by, but research has shown that some women maintain satisfying sex lives well into old age, Dr Alison J. Huang of the University of California at San Francisco and her colleagues note in the Journal of the American Geriatrics Society.

To investigate what factors might be associated with sustained interest in sex, they had 1977 racially and ethnically women, aged 45 to 80 years old, fill out questionnaires on their physical, mental and sexual health. Just over two-thirds were married or living with a partner.

Forty-three per cent of the women overall said that their interest in or desire to have sex was “moderate to very high” over the past three months, while 60 per cent reported some sexual activity in the previous three months.

For women 65 and older, 28 per cent reported at least moderate interest in sex during the past three months, and nearly 37 per cent had engaged in sexual activity during that time.

Fifty-seven per cent said they were at least moderately sexually satisfied. The sexually inactive women were more likely to be satisfied with their sex lives if they were older.

The most common reasons women cited for not being sexually active included lack of interest (39 per cent), lack of a partner (36 per cent), a partner’s physical problems (23 per cent), and a partner’s lack of interest in sex (11 per cent). Only about 9 per cent of the women said that their own physical problems were the cause.

Being married or living with a partner more than tripled a woman’s likelihood of having sex at least weekly. The chances of having weekly sexual activity also rose with a woman’s scores on tests of mental and physical health.

The researchers identified some ethnic and racial differences among the women; for example, black women were more likely than white women to report at least moderate desire to have sex, but less likely to have sex weekly, while Latina women who were sexually active were more likely than sexually active whites to report being at least moderately satisfied with their sex lives.

Many factors could account for these differences, including cultural influences, Huang and her team note. “Additionally, there may be important differences in women’s willingness to acknowledge or report sexual activity and problems across racial and ethnic groups,” they add.

“Further research is needed to assess how these differences may influence medical discussions about sexual functioning in women of diverse backgrounds,” they conclude.

SOURCE: Stuff.co.nz

…and it’s a MILF porn scene, at that! I found this at AdultFYI:

from www.cultofmac.com – An adult video company has found a way to get porn onto the iPhone despite Apple’s restrictions on XXX apps.

Pink Visual has shot what it claims to be the first porn scene using an iPhone 3GS.

“We figured this was the next logical step in our ongoing fascination with the iPhone,” said Pink Visual spokeswoman Kim Kysar in a statement. “I think it’s safe to say we are the most ‘iPhone-centric’ porn company around.”

Based in the San Fernando Valley (or Porn Valley), the company’s slogan is: “We innovate, you masturbate.”

The new scene features “popular cougars” Lexi LaMour and Diamond Foxxx, [pictured] Pink Visual said, and is being published as a webisode on MilfSeeker.com (Definitely NTSFW).

The scene was shot by director Matt Morningwood, who said it was easy to shoot with the iPhone. The 3GS gave the scene a certain ‘cinema verite’ and was easier to get into tight spots than a big HD camera.

“If anything, it was too easy to shoot with the iPhone,” Morningwood said. “I’m used to HD cameras, boom mics, and all sorts of other peripherals being part of the deal. The only thing that was difficult was holding the phone steady with two knockout blonde cougars getting naked and going at in front of the camera.”

Pink Visual is considering making iPhone footage a regular feature of its productions.

“The nature of the footage definitely augments the immediacy and realness of the scene,” Kysar said. “Shooting content on the iPhone is a viable option, and something special we can add to the mix now and again.”

Carol Costello from CNN’s American Morning objects to the term “cougar.” On her CNN blog, she writes:

There is a brand new sitcom on ABC this fall: “Cougar Town.” It stars the gorgeous Courtney Cox as a 40-something woman on the prowl for sex with 20-something men. Some of my friends are excited about this new comedy, others are appalled.

There is no doubt though, our pop culture has gone “Cougar Crazy.” Saturday Night Live often parodies the craze and there are dozens of websites devoted to “cougars on the prowl.” …

Kaplan Thaler says maybe it’s time women demanded the term “cougar” be changed to “sophisticat.” That way May/December romances will become accepted for what they ought to be: loving relationships.

“I know a woman who’s 58 who has a 40-year-old boyfriend who’s madly, madly in love with her,” she says. “A lot of these young guys are interested in older women. I think it’s fantastic.”

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Is this just a lot of sound and fury, signifying nothing? It looks like she’s getting to a point… but then she lets the quotes make the point for her. Is Carol Costello herself opposed to being called a cougar or not? It’s hard to tell. Maybe if we stay tuned, she’ll let us know more… it’s good for ratings, eh?

Who’s the hottest celebrity MILF? Is it slinky Angelina Jolie? Still-gorgeous supermodels Cindy Crawford, Elle McPherson, Heidi Klum? Brainy, funny beauty Tina Fey (pictured above)? There are a hundred to choose from on this list and I think everybody will remember some babe who got left off. It’s a little outdated now, so they could always make a new one for everybody to discuss.

Cher, Teri Hatcher, Demi Moore, Kim Cattrall, Nicollette Sheridan, Cameron Diaz … The list of women who have been crowned cougars goes on and on.

Thanks to shows like “Sex and the City” and “Desperate Housewives,” older women are where it’s at when it comes to sex appeal. And these women are working it everywhere.

It used to be that no gal would ever want to be called a “cougar.” A Canadian slang word, it was originally a derogatory term for older women at bars who would go home at the end of the night with any “leftovers.”

So what makes the cougar such a fascinating creature now?

While the term “cougar” is occasionally used for women in their 30s dating men at least eight to 10 years their junior, it typically refers to women over 40 who are:

— Very attractive and in super shape;

— Into working out and staying fit;

— Well-educated and cosmopolitan;

— Confident and empowered, especially when it comes to their sexuality.

In the old days, cougars were known to travel in packs. But these days, they’re venturing far beyond their cougar dens, and quite often solo. They can be found “preying” at the same places younger women do — health clubs, concerts, sports stores, sporting events, bars, grocery stores, home improvement stores. … And they can be anybody.

According to Ilona Paris, author of “Hot Cougar Sex,” there are four major types of cougars:

Power Cougars — Often sporting a power suit, this highly educated woman needs to be discreet about her trysts, given that she’s often “busting balls” in the boardroom or hanging with the big guys.

Intellectual Cougars — This bright lady is the sort you’ll find reading in a bookstore café, dabbling in philosophical debates or looking to shape society via the media.

Unexpected Cougars — This quiet and demure woman is the sort you’d never expect to seduce someone too young to remember when Madonna was ‘like a virgin.’

Divorcée Cougar — Having just gotten out of a marriage that lasted into the double digits, this woman is rearing to go and wants zero attachment.

I’ve also heard of cougars who are of “puma” status. These over-40 women are the Bond girls of cougars: breathtaking beautiful, with sexy foreign accents, wardrobes to die for, and ultra chic.

Yet whether puma or cougar, she seems to have it all, and she knows it. She’s not after attachment. In fact, she quite embraces her status as a single woman. She’s not after money. After all, she’s independent and financially stable.

So what could she possibly want in a younger man? Her hunt is about feeling good, ageless and desirable. She prefers the younger man’s energy, especially that it’s not weighed down by baggage. She’s looking for fun. And best yet, she has no qualms about turning eye candy into arm candy.

She doesn’t care what others think — and neither do what’s come to be known as “cougar hunters.”

These men love that she’s sexy, in control and secure with herself. They’re drawn to her confidence, sexual experience, and sex appeal. They are aroused by the fact that she’s less inhibited and more sexually mature than women their own age. She knows what she wants and likes in bed, and she’s not afraid to show him.

It’s hard to gauge if cougars are a trend or if they’re here to stay. Some people feel that society has made great strides in finally overcoming a dating double standard. Hugh Hefner has flaunted his Playboy bunnies for decades; now she can now have her boy toys, too.

Yet some people still find the “Mrs. Robinson” scenario creepy and not sexy in the least. If you find yourself in that category, you might want to check out Paris’ read.

As a book editor, I have a number of erotica works come my way. And let me tell you, this cougar’s ventures had me fanning myself. Her real life “sexploits” put younger erotica writers to shame.

Sexy or not, the cougar’s purr has become a roar. Entire industries are catering to this feline’s every need, as well as those of her admirers. There are dating Web sites, personals, porn sites, upcoming TV shows … even Real Cougar Woman Radio — all turning her den into a dynasty.

Flip through any celebrity magazine, and you’ll notice that it’s the over-40 crowd owning the pages. Walk down any street, and you’ll see cougars turning heads. If you’re brave enough to play with this cat, know that she adores having her ego stroked. And know that she’ll bite if you ask about her beauty secrets — or her age.

Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

Source: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,510209,00.html

New York, NY – February 19, 2009 – Stacey Anderson, a stunning 40-year-old successful realtor from Scottsdale, Arizona, has been named as the “Cougar” in TV Land’s new original series “The Cougar,” it was announced today. The eight-episode series, which is hosted by Vivica A. Fox (”Kill Bill: Vol. 1,” “Curb Your Enthusiasm”), follows Anderson as she searches for love among a pool of 20 eligible twenty-something men. The one-hour elimination dating series is executive produced by Mike Fleiss (”The Bachelor”) through his NEXT Entertainment production company in association with Warner Horizon Television and premieres on April 15th at 10:00 pm ET/PT on TV Land PRIME.

“Stacey Anderson’s vivacious personality, stunning looks and incredible heart make her the perfect choice as our ‘Cougar,’” states Larry W. Jones, president, TV Land. ”She is sure to break all the stereotypes people hold about ‘cougars.’ ”

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It looks like that “MILF Island” reality TV idea they joked about on “30 Rock” sounded like a good idea to the producers. Stacey’s not a MILF, but she’s definitely one hot cougar.